Swinger 201: Let's Get This Play Party Started!

If you’re tired of spending hours of time getting to know the couple that doesn’t play, isn’t ready to play, or worse yet…the couple that is nothing but DRAMA…this workshop led by The Dominatrix of Ditties is for you!  You’ll leave this workshop with ideas on how to find and approach couples, and discover what questions to ask a couple so you can find out if they’re a suitable couple to play with.   You’ll learn to spot the drama long before you hit the bedroom, and how to exit a play session gracefully when things go south.


Presenter: Dominatrix of Ditties

Dominatrix of Ditties has written silly songs since she was 4, but wasn’t always rewarded for this creative behavior. Somehow, she found a few teachers and professors along the way that encouraged her creativity and graduated with a B.A. in Music and Business. After college, she met her husband, moved to Florida, and found her way to a comedy club in 2002, working up to headliner by 2007. In 2009, she became a favorite at the clothing optional Caliente Resort. When a comedy show fell through, she asked her husband if he’d like to spend the weekend at Caliente. He did, and they loved it. As they found themselves deeper in this new lifestyle – her comedy followed. She found herself writing about her new experiences – but she couldn’t perform the material in traditional comedy clubs because “the audience wouldn’t understand.” So she brought the new material to swingers, nudists and BDSMers as The Dominatrix of Ditties. Since then, she's performed all over the world at lifestyle conventions, cruises, swing clubs, and group events... pointing out the funny things that just happen in the lifestyle, always promoting the fun we all share. In January 2015 she and her husband separated, so now the experiences she shares include married and single perspectives of the lifestyle.